The most important accomplishments that we can point back to at the end of our days are the successful relationships that we were fortunate to build during our lives. If one of these is a spouse then we are triply blest.
God is more interested in your future and your relationships than you are.
Herman Wouk the celebrated novelist and World War II naval officer was asked, in an interview at the age of 100, what was the secret of his 63 year marriage to his late wife Sarah - his answer -
Love. It took us straight through all those years, solving everything, together.
You are truly grown up when you stop wishing and start planning.
It takes as much energy to wish as it does to plan.